The psychologist revealed which compromises can ruin relationships: when concessions are harmful.

Many people believe that it is impossible to have healthy and happy relationships without compromises. confirm this theory, but it is important to understand which compromises can improve relationships and which can undermine them.

In an exclusive comment for RBK-Ukraine, life coach explained this.

Compromises that will preserve relationships

The expert emphasizes that a compromise is an agreement where both partners give up something for a common goal. It is important for both the man and the woman to understand this, as a compromise from one side can provoke conflict.

Some compromises can be beneficial and help improve the relationship. For example, these can be:

• moving to a new city that suits both;
• dividing responsibilities and adhering to them;
• agreeing on time for each person's personal space.

Compromises that threaten relationships

Sometimes one partner may make a compromise that contradicts their values. This does not contribute to feelings but only destroys the relationship.

There are several myths about compromises that Vitaliy Kursik advises not to believe. Among the common thoughts:

• if you love, you will give up everything;
• someone must be wiser;
• the main thing is peace, not truth;
• it's normal if someone always sacrifices.

In fact, all these 'concessions' can lead to emotional disappointment and burnout in relationships. Such a partner risks losing themselves.

In Vitaliy Kursik's expert commentary, it is revealed how the right compromises can save relationships, while harmful ones lead to their demise. It is important to be able to negotiate, compromise with understanding, and seek solutions that satisfy both partners.