Your partner is texting you in chat: how to recognize text from artificial intelligence.

Modern dating problems: is your partner using artificial intelligence?

According to The Sun: We are officially facing new challenges in the world of dating.

Is your partner really writing touching words from the heart, or is it just the result of a large language model's work, like ChatGPT?

Today, artificial intelligence is used for various purposes: from composing emails to writing love messages. Experts believe there are certain signs that can help determine if your partner relies on these technologies in their romantic messages.

According to copywriting expert Naomi Alderman, it's important not only what messages say but also how they are constructed.

Naomi explains that AI-generated content often lacks important coherence.

She emphasizes: words “must work together,” not break apart like a “cheap toy.” As a result, the message may be technically correct but lack soul.

Signs to watch out for

Authenticity of text

If your partner suddenly starts sounding as if their text was written by a perfect committee, this may be a cause for suspicion.

Generic or overly friendly phrases

Chatbots often predict which word is most likely to fit, resulting in bland, generic, and professional outputs.

Naomi points out that even if you ask AI to be informal, it still feels like the text “overworks” this task.

If your usually straightforward partner suddenly became more verbose in their expressions, be cautious.

Misunderstandings in expressions

AI can choose a technically correct word, but it may not convey the desired tone or meaning. Naomi describes it as a feeling of absurdity, as if the words were chosen randomly without human intuition.

Could they say it out loud?

Try to perform a verbal check. Naomi suggests reading the text aloud and asking yourself if your partner could actually say such a phrase in conversation. If it sounds too formal or strange, it’s likely not their words.

Also, pay attention to the perspective: AI stylistics often lacks the emotional inflection typically found in living people and sounds like “bureaucracy written by a committee.”

Poor writing

Naomi warns that despite the capabilities of AI, its written outputs often leave much to be desired. This is especially noticeable in complex forms such as poetry, where rhythm and tempo are important.

Use AI to detect another AI

If you really want to check, Naomi suggests using the technology itself for detection. Just copy and paste the suspicious text into a chatbot and ask: “Was this written by a large language model?”

AI can often detect the characteristic language patterns of another large language model. While these tools are not perfect, Naomi stresses that the best part of writing technology is that “they can be used to analyze and resolve issues they themselves create.”

Modern technologies are indeed changing us, including in relationships. Exploring ways to detect AI's influence on romantic connections is important to stay attentive to manifestations of sincerity and naturalness in communication. Using AI in dating may create new challenges; however, awareness in this area will help preserve genuine emotions and connections among people.